Why didn’t they just say so in the first place?

July 19th, 2010

Customer Experience When Messages are Mixed 
 
I always wonder: Does senior leadership know what their customer is experiencing, or are they out of touch?  Do they get to hear the truth from consumers of their product or service, or do unhappy customers just say nothing and never return?
 
My husband and I recently took all three (young [...]

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How to Engage Volunteerism

May 26th, 2010

Busy and successful people find themselves getting ”hit up” for all sorts of fundraisers, and to be on boards of directors on a regular basis.  If you are reading this post, you are probably thinking to yourself ”No kidding, it happened to me three times last week.”
Here are some principles I’ve learned since I began spending 1/2 my time volunteering [...]

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Understanding Grief in the Workplace

May 19th, 2010

A Primer on Loss and Grief for Leaders
If you are running a company of any size, you hear about some relative or friend of your workforce dying almost every day. In even the smallest company, there is loss all around your employees. Loss you don’t see, and I am about to make you aware of. [...]

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“How are YOU Smart”?

May 1st, 2010

I just arrived back home after delivering a breakout session on brainpower for Communicatiion ‘10, The District 7 Toastmasters Spring Conference at eh Oregon Convention Center. Because the introductory keynote ran a bit over, I had to cut our session short, so thought it would be helpful to post an outline for you, since we did rather race to [...]

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Fixing What’s Not Broken? STOP

February 25th, 2010

First, let me introduce Judith to you.  She is an amazing woman I have become friends with, and I love reading her blog.  On Monday, while I was in a class on How to Counsel People who suffer from Co-Dependency, she was writing this blog post.  I found it ironically serendipitous, so I asked her [...]

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A Softer, Easier Twelve Step Program

February 24th, 2010

Recently at a continuing education class on Co-Dependency, I was given a handout I found hilarious.  It is most funny if you are familiar with the twelve steps of any recovery program, which are, by the way, not just good recovery steps, but excellent steps to follow in daily life in your business and personal [...]

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The Mental Irony of Life

February 19th, 2010

Yesterday was one of those typical days: coaching calls, a presentation, a meeting, and some administrative tasks.  As I was looking at my calendar, realizing it was “kids over for dinner” night, (we have a family dinner once a week with the three kids, who are all in college at once, all locally, and often [...]

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Relationship between EQ and profit

February 4th, 2010

“OMG, Here she goes again with the EQ stuff!  I’m focused on the bottom line and don’t have time do deal with all this ’soft stuff’…”
I know, but here’s the deal. It’s all soft stuff.  Yes, that’s what I said.  It’s all soft stuff.  Just imagine, you show up at your office, and find out all [...]

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Moving from Defense to Offense to Re-Engage Your Team

February 3rd, 2010

In my last post I talked about disengagement.  Let’s continue the discussion, first, by giving you a “state of the people” address.  Then let’s look at some actions you can take to proactively position yourself for the next battle:
Some things you should know:  

According to a recent study by the Washington-based Corporate Executive Board, the [...]

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Touchy-Feely Seminar Crap

December 30th, 2009

Finally! We’re starting to study the neuroscience behind  altruism and generosity, charity and empathy, and other positive emotions. How does it affect the brain, as opposed to other things we have studied, such as fight or flight responses, and addictions, etc. Check out this recent press release  http://tinyurl.com/yh2t8f2
Often when I bring up the topic of emotional [...]

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